| Lindy Hop Etiquette and Safety Issues Exciting stuff to be added below :)
Personal hygiene - If you sweat a lot, guy or girl, bring extra shirts, and use them. Also bringing a towel to wipe off once in awhile is nice too. Your partner will thank you! This is especially important if you are dancing balboa.
Asking people to dance (and responding)
- Kindly smile, and say, "Would you like to dance?" and hold out your hand. Just holding out your hand is a little weird, unless you know the person.
- It is ok to say no, but try to not to be capricious about it "just because." If you want to dance with them later, say so. If you really don't want to dance with them at all, say, "no thank you."
- If someone says no, don't badger them until they relent. No means no.
- Keep in mind that asking someone to dance (or accepting an invitation) merely commits you to a song-length interaction with that person. That's only about three minutes. You are not selecting a life partner, so relax. Indulge each other. The more you do it, the easier and more fun it gets.
- In Europe, the convention is to dance two dances per request. Be aware that walking away after only one in that environment might be considered a rebuff. Ask and learn the local customs.
Safety
- Do not do aerials on a crowded floor. Ever. You may hit someone in the head, shins, etc, and your name will be mud. If you must do aerials, a jam is more appropriate.
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